Your Networking Problems – Solved! #1: ‘I don’t like small talk’

We all hate small talk. Formal networking events, can be just that a bit more formal. However, attending a regular networking group or a attending events with a networking buddy or ally can make it more natural and easier to have a general conversation. Also don’t be afraid to just be honest and say you find small talk awkward and have a bit of a laugh about it.

If you struggle with small talk, here are a few tips that may help:

01. Prepare ahead of time:

Before attending a networking event, take some time to think about potential conversation starters or topics that you can bring up. This can help you feel more confident and prepared to engage with others.

02. Focus on common interests:

Look for common interests or topics that you can discuss with others. This might include hobbies, travel, or current events.

03. Ask open-ended questions:

To encourage more in-depth conversations, try asking open-ended questions that allow others to share more about themselves. This might include questions about their work, interests, or goals.

04. Practice active listening:

When engaging in small talk, try to focus on what the other person is saying and show genuine interest in their responses. This can help build a connection and encourage further conversation.

05. Be yourself:

Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Be genuine and authentic in your interactions, and others will likely respond positively.

By following these tips, you can improve your skills in small talk and feel more comfortable and confident engaging with others in networking situations.